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Name: Cherie

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I have been dating a guy for almost a yr- I am 21 weeks pregnant. I have lost all interest in my relationship. He has said if i don't give him sex he will find it least where. He is very into himself and does not think of others. He has some medical issues and does not care care of himself, how do i trust him with a newborn. I have a 5 yr old who he fights with. I caught him going out on dates with 1 girl and he admited to meeting 3 women offline. I have lost all trust in the man. He lives 3 hours away and has only visited me twice in the last year- he expects me to drive there. I have put 100 percent into this relationship and he has put 25 percent. Im thinking a break is necessary to see if any feelings come back once baby is born. Am i just crazy? ↓

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 4:19 AM

Dump his loser butt, and move on. You are better than that. Sounds like you should just kick him to the curb. You are not the crazy one. I dated a guy once that lived outta town once, and he did the same thing. Made me drive there all the time. That alone was enough to make me realize that I obviously wasn't important enough to him. Get rid of him, just by reading your post, he doesn't care one bit about you. ↑