| First of all, you need to get some support whether it be family, friend, clergy, etc. You also need to get into a doctor ASAP. The health dept can to a prenatal exam. This is just as important for you as the baby. Pregnacy can cause high blood pressure and diabetes in some women. You may only be 16 but you are still a women. Take a deep breath and know you will be OK. Confide in someone you can lean on. It may be someone you feel will be dissappointed in you but you have to give it a go. There are also single teen mother support groups. Check with the health dept., churches, etc. Our area actually has a foster program for teen mothers to be taken care of by families when they have no where else to go. It may seem bleek right now. Have faith. My prayers are with you. ↑ |
| Im 16 also and Im 4 months..you dont have to be ok Amy....email me [email protected] ↑ |
Hi,
You said you have to ask. What is your question? I would love to talk email me at [email protected] ↑ |
its normal to be scard.. 4 months is also really far long to be to.
i just found im preganant couple weeks ago (right after me n my bf split.. im about 2 months now..
its hard .. beacuse everything you do . eat, feel, desision you make isnt gonna just affect you anymore and its scary..
but dont think about anyone else. .think about what you need to do .. in your heart whats right whether that be adoption or keeping the child.. dont do anything you feel even the slightest doubt over.. You can do this.. and it WILL be okay. there is much support out there (if your single or not) Yes your young.. but regardless of peoples judgment or whatever people think ... right now its ONLy about YOU and your CHILD ..do what you feel in your heart that is right ..you know.. :) congrats .. a baby is a gift and a blessing :):) ↑ |
