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Name: Denise
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I think I talked my husband into having one more kid. He just said that as long as it happens within the next two years. He doesn't want kids after that. He wants this chapter behind him and he is tired of hearing about baby names. He also said, that he puts his foot down and that I would have to get my tubes tied before leaving the hospital this time.
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Name: firewife | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 1:57 AM
Denise thats great, I know its a hard decision and its sad when you decide that your done and will never again feel you little one growing inside you or experience the miracle of birth, (can you tell I want another)
LOL at his "putting his foot down", I think you should tell him that since you carried the babies for 9 months and went through labor and delivery that he should at least do the fixing, in all seriousness I think its cheaper and less painful with a quicker recovery period. 

Name: Denise | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 2:17 AM
The deal is, he will have it done if we stop at two, but if I want one more, then I have to do it. 

Name: Serina S | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 12:58 PM
I am happy for you!! But Since he is the one that does not want more kids he should get himself fixed I mean really !! Once you have your tubes tied some times actually most time it can to be reversed. For your sake have him to it after the babby comes. The recovery time is a lot faster and less painful too.
Very best of luck!!! 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 3:02 PM
That really is good i hope it happens soon! 

Name: mommyagain | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 5:27 PM
I agree with the other ladies. My ex husband tried getting me to tie my tubes after Mackenzie (#2) and I refused i knew I wanted at least one more whether he did or not. Now it has been almost 3 years since I had Mackenzie and 2 years since I left my husband.... Now I am happily with Jay and having number 3. Now I do know that i am done now... 3 is my limit so I will tie my tubes after this but the point is I knew i wanted more and I am greatful now that i didnt listen to my ex.... point is do what you want, because you never know what will happen in the future. 

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