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| Name: Layne | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 1:16 PM |
| Oh yes they are our little Blessings. If only all children could be so loved..... ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 2:04 PM |
| Oh yes, sometimes I look at my babies who are 18, and 20, when they are sleeping, I can still see that little baby face when they were in the crib, and I want to pick them up and rock them. We all laugh because they come a sit with me, or hug, or lay in my lap, and I will say play "baby for me" I want to rock you, they run from the room laughing. I also love to see the man, in my son, and the woman in my daughter. They are beautiful in and out. ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 2:38 PM |
| Rain, your baby is 20....so is mine! Mentaly they can be as much work as the little ones some times LOL LOL! ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 3:27 PM |
| Absolutely! Just looking at my son makes me smile, cry lately but I blame that on hormones...LOL. To me he is a true blessing from god as well as my unborn child. Before my husband and I got married we actually had to discuss the possibility of not being able to have child (most people don't have to do this until they start trying and find that they can't have children) but there was a good possibility that I would not be able to have children do to all the medication problems that I had and still have. I love it when he does this that don't make sense. I love it when we are going for a walk and he starts dancing. I love it when he is naughty and when he is just being silly. I tell him everyday what a blessing he is. I tell him that he's the best thing that every happened to mommy and that I wouldn't go back and change anything if given the option. I would give my life for my little angel. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 3:30 PM |
| Speaking of blessings and loving you children no matter what. I actually had this conversation at my appointment yesterday when they asked me if I wanted to take the amino protein test. I told her know. Just as with my first pregnancy it doesn't matter what that test say. If my baby has down syndrome or spina bifia then this is what god had planned for us and the baby. I wouldn't terminate the pregnancy. He/she would be born into our family and loved just as if he/she was 100% healthy. No matter what the situation all children are blessings. I do not believe God would give me anything he didn't think that I could handle. ↑ |
| Name: Farah | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 3:43 PM |
| AWWW, what a beautiful conversation! Made me teary eyed, almost anything does, lol. I'm just 26 with my first baby girl who's only 5 weeks old today. I've been meaning to go buy a journal and I was going to start it by explaining each special feeling I get when I look at my daughter. I want her to read it when she becomes a teenager so she'll know just how special she is! Mine wasn't a planned pregnancy, but I knew I wanted a baby so I was purposely not careful, if I wouldn't have been I would have never convinced her father to have a baby. I remember a week before I found out I was "3 MONTHS" pregnant, I was at the hospital because my bestfriends sister was having a baby and on the way home I was just going off on how much I wanted a baby and my clock was ticking and so on so, yes what a wonderful surprise. And for the first few weeks after she was born every time I thought of how much I loved her I would burst into tears and my mother would just laugh. Children are such blessings and I'm trying to absorb every little bit of her cause I know how much time flies. It's rediculas I even think it's cute when she's pooping,lol. I'm sure that won't last, lol. ↑ |
| Name: Stacy | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 6:14 PM |
| Yes!!! I completely agree, I don't know what I ever did in my life to have something so wonderful as my daughter. I have never felt such love, or exaustion. Every stage her has gone through I think "yes, this is the best, I just want to freeze her, because she's so prefect". To EthansMom, I agree with you about the Amnio, when it comes time for your 20 week ultrasound they will check for everything anyways. And, that way if (god forbid) there are any abnormalities you can be prepared medically, financially,& emotionally. ↑ |
| Name: Mommy | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 7:36 PM |
| I understand completely. I have 2 beautiful little boys who never cease to amaze me. My kids are getting so big and I still have the urge to hold them and rock them like when they were infants. Granted they are 1 and 2, they are at the "independent" age. I will never take advantage of their childhood, it goes by way too quickly to be occupied by other things. :o) ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 9:03 PM |
| Yes, Lindalu, My boy is twenty. I was surprised at how much mothering now resembles having a two year old. DON’T TOUCH TNHAT! GET THAT OUT OF YOU MOUTH! PUT THAT DOWN! Ha! Ha! What beautiful stories. When aerosmith came out with the song I DON’T WANT TO MISS A THING, I printed it up, framed it and gave it to my son for Christmas. I explained to him, that, that was exactly how I felt when he was born. I couldn’t sleep for three days I was so fascinated by him and did not want to miss a moment. For my daughter I gave her the song I HOPE YOU DANCE. How I didn’t want her to miss a moment of wonder and never let life get to serious that you can’t stop and see the joy. Good for you Ethansmom. I think every woman who has to face that fear should have the option to visit a special class, to see that love and hope, and success, no matter how high or low is the same for all children. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 9:13 PM |
| This is a wonderful post, especially for me, after the day I've had. It makes me step back and look at my wonderful little girls and smile and thank God he gave me my own little Angels!! There is a song I listen to when I get stressed from Mommy duties, I think it is called "Somebodies Hero" by Jamie O'neil. It puts what we are doing it perspective. All of our children are special. And I thank God everynight for all the children he has granted people. ↑ |
| Name: Loritolay | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 10:08 PM |
| I totally agree with you Denise. I have one son who is three and sometimes I can't believe how much I love him. He is so precious and special that sometimes I don't feel worthy to have him. I got pregnant with him about four months after my dad passed away and it is so uncanny how he looks and acts just like him sometimes but never got to meet him. I was very close to my dad, so it is very special to me that he has a lot of his traits. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 10:55 PM |
| JAMIE O'NEAL LYRICS "Somebody's Hero" She's never pulled anyone from a burning building She's never rocked Central Park to a half a million fans, screaming out her name She's never hit a shot to win the game She's never left her footprints on the moon She's never made a solo hot air balloon ride, around the world, No, she's just your everyday average girl (but) She's somebody's hero A hero to her baby with a skinned up knee A little kiss is all she needs The keeper of the cheerios The voice that brings Snow White to life Bedtime stories every night And that smile lets her know She's somebody's hero She didn't get a check every week like a nine-to fiver But she's been a waiter, and a cook and a taxi driver For twenty years, there at home, until the day her girl was grown Giving all her love to her was her life's ambition But now her baby's movin' on, and she'll soon be missin' her But not today, those are tears of joy runnin' down her face She's somebody's hero A hero to her daughter in her wedding dress She gave her wings to leave the nest It hurts to let her baby go down the aisle she walks right by Looks back into her mother's eyes And that smile lets her know She's somebody's hero Thirty years have flown right past Her daughters' starin' at all the photographs Of her mother, and she wishes she could be like that Oh, but she already is She's somebody's hero A hero to her mother in a rockin' chair She runs a brush through her silver hair The envy of the nursing home She drops by every afternoon Feeds her mama with a spoon And that smile lets her know Her mother's smile lets her know She's somebody's hero Good one Momof3 ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:01 PM |
| Thanks Rain! Does it work for you to? ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:02 PM |
| Rain, that is so true! you do have to speak to them more now. The songs you chose are perfect. That would make a great gift...choose a song that best describes a person or feeling, fram it and give it as a gift. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:09 PM |
| I made my mom a C.D. for Mother's Day, with songs that remind me of her and Somebody's Hero was the first song. She loved it. ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:14 PM |
| Momof3, that is so nice. I only wish I had my mom still....she died about five years ago. I miss her terrible!!! ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:36 PM |
| I am very sorry!! I honestly don't know what I would do without her, and lucky I grew up and finally told her how much she means to mean. ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 11:48 PM |
| It is lonley, I feel so empty a lot of the tim. When she was alive I spoke to her every day, never ever missed one! I tell people who are having problems with their moms to enjoy each day they have with her. Dont ponder on faults and disagreements...life is un predictable you never know what may happen! ↑ |
| Name: Loritolay | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 1:48 AM |
| Very true lindalu, sometimes you just never know... ↑ |
| Name: Denise | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 2:24 AM |
| I HEARD THE BEST SONG ON THE RADIO THE OTHER DAY, IT ALMOST MADE ME CRY. IT IS A COUNTRY SONG THAT TALKS ABOUT LETTING YOUR KIDS SLEEP IN THE MIDDLE, IT TALKS ABOUT HOW FAST THEY GROW UP. ↑ |
| Name: momof3 | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 3:22 AM |
| I have heard that song and I can't for the life of me think of the guys name who sings it!!! ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 2:42 PM |
| http://www.hit-country-music-lyri cs.com/Billy-Dean-little.html Go to this site girls, you can read the lyrics to the song you are speaking of, as well as listen to it play in the background. Beautiful!!! Billy Dean -Let them be little ↑ |
| Name: melody | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 3:07 PM |
| Lol...I have it all down on kodak. The drawings on the wall....face tissues pulled from the boxes and dropped all over the floor...cake faces from birthday parties....halloween costumes...even when my one son decorated his entire body head to toe with my christmas bows.........Lol,I can still hear(Oh Mom! not that stupid camera again)....Goodtimes!...Goodtimes! ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 4:05 PM |
| Oh rain....I read that....do you know I tell my kid each secreatly...they are my heros. If not for them....I really have no idea what I would be doing. They saved me from soooo much that ment nothing....and I cant be more greatfull for the blessings of those two faces in my life. I feel deep down inside...though I thought not much of myself at one time....oh the mistakes and errors in life i did make......but regardless of that the Lord loved me enough.....to bless my life with two amazing miricles. ↑ |
