| Siren - hang in there. If you love her father, you will have to ride this out. Just maintain your kindness and patience with her and she will come around. Teens are very immature and especially one that is now having to share her father's attention. She will eventually figure out that you are not a direct threat if you allow her and her father to maintain their closeness. I definitely feel for you - hang in there! ↑ |
| I need some advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years now and when I met him, he had a 7 year old and a 1 1/2 yr old. I myself had two teenage children who are not in their twenties. When we met he lost his job and moved up North with me so it was 3 hrs away from his children whom he saw every other weekend. Now we just recently moved down to where they live due to the wonderful job opportunity I received. He still pays child support so his checks are little to none. Ok so here is my beef. We made the decision to move down to that town again due to the fact of being closer to the kids for him and to help develop their self-esteem issues from what their mother has caused. My own children from a previous marriage come and see us once in a while but still live in their home town and have their own lives. Now what seems to be happening is that my step children seem to be coming around more on the weekends that we do not have them and I am feeling pissed off about it, like I dont have any time to myself working 5 days a week driving an hour to/from work or having any time with my husband. We dont do anything after work or on the weekends together and those times I just want my time. Am I being too selfish? for not wanting my step kids on those weekends? ↑ |
im a 27 year old step mom, I married my husband, that I love dearly, in August of this year! even before I married him, I knew that two of his three children hated/hates me!! His 17 year old son gets underneath my skin terribly, he does what he when he wants, he does not go to school, and he seems to know that he is coming in between my husband and I!!! I seriously have developed a hate for him! When he is at MY HOME I don't feel AT HOME!! So, is the only way for me to have PEACE at/in my home, to, to leave and divorce??? Help!!!! Please!!!!
Does anyone know of a Serenity Group Online?? ↑ |
