| Name: click | Date: Mar 3rd, 2008 3:13 PM |
| hi your baby needs a dad but a usless dad will just cause more hurt than happiness, this guy has to step up show u he wants the unborn child, let him find a job he's about to be a dad, being with him as u descrided is as good as being a single mum. Also start focus on how best u can bring this baby up alone. u'll be fine, i didn't think i could do it now my baby is 21 months...! ↑ |
| Name: The Truth | Date: Mar 4th, 2008 11:47 PM |
| Kick him to the curb. Do not hesitate! ↑ |
| Name: Andreaa | Date: Mar 6th, 2008 6:51 AM |
| Hey everyone, am 14years old and pregnat my boyfriend is 19years old... I really dont want him to get in trouble but am also scared that my body wont hadle me being pregnat am 4'11 but yeahi just hope everything goes well...anyone that can help me or is in my situation email me [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: lorna | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 10:10 AM |
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| Name: taylor | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 10:23 PM |
| what kills the baby if you 2 weeks pregant or the cell ↑ |
| Name: taylor | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 10:24 PM |
| what kills the baby if you 2 weeks pregant or the cell [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: jsawalha | Date: Apr 28th, 2008 9:04 PM |
| I think I can help-please contact me a [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: solo | Date: Apr 30th, 2008 3:33 AM |
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| Name: taylor | Date: May 7th, 2008 2:14 AM |
| im pregnant im 16 and im scared i have nop job or nothing i dont know what to do ↑ |
| Name: mckenzie | Date: May 7th, 2008 10:22 PM |
| hi Ashley R we dont have any kids but we will love to adopt your baby if thats what you consider my email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: monica | Date: May 14th, 2008 2:08 PM |
| Name: inga | Date: May 15th, 2008 5:26 AM |
| hey i'm a single mum of a 2 and a half year old little boy and gotta say it is a hell of a lot easier raising a baby when you are at peace and happy with your life and concentrate on your baby than worrying about a guy who you don't trust who doesn't treat you right... you will soon find out that the guy really isn't all that important. when you hold that baby in your arms you'll know exactly what to do. i struggle yes and it is hard sometimes but i know i've done the right thing for my little boy and he makes me happier than anyone else ever has... you're gonna be fine... ↑ |
| Name: Lauren | Date: May 15th, 2008 12:45 PM |
Hi Ashlee.
I had my son when i was 21, he is now turning one and he is the happiest little boy ever. His father use to deal drugs, was controlling and had a terrible alchol problem. I loved him and sometimes i think i still do but the first 4 months of my sons life were the worst of mine and that isn't how it should be. His father made it so difficult for me and made me so unhappy as a mom but now that we are not together anymore, i am happy and so is my son. But if i just carried on with things the way they were, my son wouldn't be where he is today. Its not so much how it affects us but more how it will affect our children. So think about what will be best for your baby. Yes every son or daughter needs their dad but they also need to be happy and i'm not saying don't let him be apart of your babies life, he can be or he has to be legally but do whats right for both of you. I wish you luck and i hope everything works out for the best and if you ever want anyone to chat to, plz email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Megan | Date: Jun 2nd, 2008 12:26 AM |
| It sounds like you've gotten a lot of good advice and support! I had my son at 21 years old as well. My advice- Focus on yourself and enjoying your sweet little one! It looks like you have the love and support of your family and thats more than a lot of people have. I know its so scary to face pregnancy and birth, but look at all the positive things in your life- you have parents who love you so much they're trying to look out for your best interests and you're having a sweet little one who will fill your life with so much love and joy you won't want any more! Of course its hard to be a parent sometimes, but you can do it. Find a support network in your city with other mothers and let them and your family hold you up when you feel helpless. Most of all, enjoy your pregnancy, spoil yourself, you deserve it! You're a mommy! Best wishes and much love to you all! I know you'll be a great mom! ↑ |
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| Name: Sarah | Date: Jun 22nd, 2008 1:22 PM |
Hun, I know how you feel, i know what its like to be in a relationship you dont know if you should be in... Yesterday I just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant and the father is well a dead beat. I am 20 years old,scared, and I love him to death but i feel as if he is my "project" rather than partner. I always have to work with him and be by his side like a baby sitter. if we fight he runs off and does drugs. He will do coke or weed or he will turn to stupidity like robotussin or benadryl by means of drinking a bottle or two of it or taking way too many pills. It killed me how he was when i took my three pregnancy tests (all +) he was drinking heavily all night took an ativan which is like an anti-anxiety pill which should never be mixed with booze. now granted most of the alcohol was worn off by the time of the tests (about 5am) but after buying the test he grabbed a bottle of robotussin and drank that so he was not nearly in the state of mind he needed to be in for the news nor to be there for me when I really needed him. that is a dead beat not to mention ran me up in debt and hasnt been able to keep a job in the year we have been together.
And with your situation Ashlee, I have seen it way too many times. The father will care about the baby and possibly you but his "street" lifewill ALWAYS come first. I have seen it way too many times. go as far away from him as you can, get child support, and find a real man who will take care of you the way he should and not run his life by selling drugs or strip clubs or anythinig. your a strong woman, we all are and we strive for independence, it might be hard at first but move on it is truely thebest thing to do. when you dont trust a man once it never goes away completely. dont put yourself through that. and ALWAYS always listen to your gut feeling, your intuition it will never do you wrong. I have always found in time or by some means mine was always right. Goodluck hunnie. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah | Date: Jun 22nd, 2008 1:27 PM |
| if anyone wold like to share support or stories or just be friends doing this thing together, my email is [email protected]. ↑ |
| Name: Rani | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 6:30 AM |
| I am only 19 years old . 7 months pregnant .the babys father dont want it.but i want it.both of us live together . but dont care about my situation.now my baby is growing fast.even i cant do my day today work. even we havent marry yet ↑ |
| Name: rae | Date: Jul 4th, 2008 4:05 AM |
| iam 14 and think iampregant ↑ |
| Name: val204 | Date: Jul 15th, 2008 6:15 AM |
| Hi Im 16 and I just found out that I am pregnant.. I am so scared to tell my parents you have no idea.. but my boyfriend wants it.. im just so stressed because of school and sports and just everything and i dont know how to manage it and im just down and out and cuz no one knows really what im going through and of course i wont get rid of my baby but its just hard ... really really hard... the only thing is that im so SCARED OF MY PARENTS..... the thing is that i was pregnant earlier this year and i had a miscarriage and i was soooooooooo sad cuz i wanted my baby back and so did my boyfriend but my parents were talkin smack to me and i would end up cryin and now since im pregnant again iono how they will take it and i just dont want to tell them because i know they will go off on me. Sometimes i think about abortion cuz im so stressed but really i dont want one.. my aunt just had an abortion and she regrets it.... i just need advice please... ↑ |
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| Name: helpme#### | Date: Jul 25th, 2008 1:59 PM |
| im pregant and scared that im going die wheni give birth. ↑ |
| Name: Mary | Date: Aug 18th, 2008 2:35 PM |
| Hello my name is Mary and I am 33 years old. I am about one month pregnant, but i am so scared to have it. I live with my boyfriend for about 3 years, but we are so different people. Lately we have been problems and everyday fighting and arguing about anything. He always thinks he is right about everything and another thing is that he always think about his friends first than us. He has this friend that wants to move in with us with his girlfriend and I told him not becuz every couple needs privacy, so my bf told me that I am wrong not to aloud them to move in with us. He keeps telling me thats why I dont have friends. I think that having friends is great but I believe in Family come first, at least that is the way that I grew up. The big problem is if I should keep the baby or not.... I dont know who should I talk I didnt tell anybody about the way I feel becuz my boyfriend keeps threating me if I dont acept the eveything that he say he will leave me pregnant and the worst thing it is that I dont have a job right now bcuz my contract ended. Please help ASAP ↑ |
| Name: Amy | Date: Sep 6th, 2008 2:24 AM |
| if you want to talk email me [email protected]. ↑ |
| Name: KDB | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 8:17 PM |
Girls! First of all, your baby should come first! They did not ask to be put in these unhealthy situations. There are tons of families who want a baby so bad. If you want to try to keep your child there is help out there. If you don't have a job, you can still get help and it would be way better than living in a bad relationship. Believe it or not, but the baby can sense tension and stress. I took in a young lady 3 yrs ago, who was 18 and pregnant. She and her beautiful baby girl (she will be 3 yrs old in Nov) have come along way.
You can email me at [email protected]. Please ladies, don't kill your child, throw them in dumpsters or beat them. If you can't handle it, go to nurse, police or hospital and get help.
Thanks! ↑ |
| Name: misty's family | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 10:12 PM |
| i edont now if im pregnet or not cause i havent had my cycle yet this month ↑ |
| Name: gloria | Date: Oct 26th, 2008 11:21 PM |
| as a pregnant teen.4 months exactly.and the age 17.i told my best friend and he asked who the father was.whn he found out he started crying.he asked if i had told anyone yet and i said no.he said let me be the father cuz ur parents will let you keep it and they love and trust tht ill take care of you.he took the responsibility of being the father even when he wasnt.we are now married and have 3 lovely children ↑ |
| Name: liz | Date: Oct 26th, 2008 11:23 PM |
| he doesnt need to be around the baby or you.he will be nothing but trouble.no matter how much you love him and evn if he loves you hell nvr change.ud be best without him.you can get far in life evn without him.your baby will have a father one day.and tht dad will love him/her! ↑ |
| Name: =/ | Date: Nov 12th, 2008 4:14 PM |
| hes not worth it , theres plenty of good men out there , that will take on the both of you!! , my dad was a waster too so im told , now i have another dad in my life , if in my whole life my real dad ever wants to show up , he wont like it but tough :) ↑ |
| Name: TAMARAxNOR33N | Date: Nov 12th, 2008 11:00 PM |
aww.yeah you shouldn`t let him see the baby till he smartens up and stops doing and selling drugs. iif you need someone to talk to
email me , or add me
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: sasha | Date: Dec 17th, 2008 3:45 PM |
| im scared to be a single parent im 7 weeks pregnant and some girl as told me she been sleping with my boyfriend i dont know what to do im realy scared i dnt want my baby to go threw what i did when i was a child i had no dad and it was horrible i always said im nver gna av a baby with out the dad around but by the looks of things im not gonna av any choice..what shud i do ?? ↑ |
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