| Name: Tess | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 1:22 AM |
yeah it is a dam shame that there are so many teen moms! Dont they know how they are wrecking their lives?
Kids having kids!! ↑ |
| Name: saxton_emma | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 1:36 AM |
| i had my daughter at 17 and i did not wreck my life in any way... ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 11:02 AM |
| pmsl at sarah.... tess shut up u biach dont care about your opinion and i dont think any one eles does...... ↑ |
| Name: zoeee | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 8:10 AM |
| You have no right to judge anybody. Not all 15 year old that fall pregnant 'sleep around'. There are numerous young mums on this that have fallen pregnant due to rape. Also, having a baby at 15 does not mean they will be an unfit mother and not be able to support their baby. My mum had me 12 days after her 16th and her 2nd at 18. She always worked to support us and we never went without. Its not as if all 20 and 30 yr old something mums can offer that. If I become half the mother she was and is then I'll be damn proud of myself just as I am her. ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 10:03 AM |
| hi i havent been on this in a while but i would just like to say that i got pregnant at 16 and had my baby boy at 17. my mum was strict and a good mum but you cannot watch your 16 year old teenager all the time i guess i just rebelled a little bit. anywAYS Iwant to disclose the myth that all teenage mums are sluts, i have only slep with one person and i got pregnant even though i didnt use protection i kno i was stupid but it aint my mums fault. i am not on benefits an di am still at school plus i work so not all teenage mums go on welfare. ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 10:07 AM |
| oh and by the way my son was 9 pounds 9 ounces i hardly feel that that is underweight. i did seek prenatal care and went to all of my antenatal classes plus checkups and scans. my mum had me at 18 and i feel that as far as academic acheivement is concerned i am doing quite well. ↑ |
| Name: lana_81 | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 12:26 PM |
| Doesnt anyone worry about getting themleves AIDS or an STD while there rooting with no protection..Or would that be an acident too.. they didnt mean to get themselves up the duff or diseased.....I dont get it.doesnt anyone watch tele and all the adds about this stuff? How stupid!! ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 12:41 PM |
| they think there better at mother which really there not! and it isnt called up the duff its called pregnancey you commoner! ↑ |
| Name: Lolly | Date: Dec 13th, 2006 4:37 PM |
| protection doesnt always work though does it you can take all kinds of precautions and still get pregnant or STDs I mean fair enough if there not using anything then yeah theyre stupid for it but not all people who get pregnant dont use protection and also some people arnt always in a situation where they can. ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 10:14 AM |
| lol hiddy... i think im agaisnt marriage because i saw what my mum and dad went through it sucks lol i wouldnt get married to the man im with no way ↑ |
| Name: tylersmummy | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 3:13 PM |
| Right first off, I had my little boy when I was 15, and yes I got judged a hell of a lot.. but Although I never saw myself having kids let alone having them young, I didn't purposely set about to have Tyler, yes I was on the pill, and no they aren't 100% effective, but no contaception is, the coil can cause ectopic pregnancies (yes I was fitted with one after Tyler to prevent future bundles of joy) so.. I'm now back on the pill and not having sex at all. I agree with what alot of you are saying of course I mean loads of teenagers get pregnant to keep a boyfriend (uh yeah mistake love) to fit in and make them seem older when infact if anything it makes them more immature, I love my son to bits I wouldn't change how things are for the world, but for people to say it ruins your life are talking sh*t basically 'cause it don't. Girls used to be forced into pregnancy as soon as they were deemed adult (when their periods started) it's just our society now that thinks that it's wrong, I have had to grow up heaps and that makes me a better person than other people my age who seem to think drink and drugs are the be all and the end all, I've steered clear from all that to provide a happy upbringing for my little guy, I don't claim benefits I work part time to support him, as does his dad who works fulltime, no we aren't together anymore but he sees his son everyday, he's 20 and loves the responsibility of having his sons life in his hands. So before you judge people make sure you get the facts straight. My life is happier than it has ever been and I'm looking forward to watching my son grow up and sharing it with him. ↑ |
| Name: tylersmummy | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 3:21 PM |
| Oh and in reply to one of Hiddys messages.... your girl will probably be experimenting with sex at 13/14, no you dont think she'll have an oppatunity to do so but she will surprise you, you can't watch her all hours of the day, and if she is like most kids these days when she's 15 she will be bunking off school and sleeping with a bf in your bed while your at work... I'd love to see her get pregnant then see what you have to say about teen mums.... you'd hardly slag your own daughter off would you now ↑ |
| Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 9:50 PM |
| Jesus christ.......bla bla bla ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 10:03 PM |
Dear Tylersmummy,
My daughter wont be experimenting with sex at age 15. I assure you. I know I cant watch her 24 hours a day. But she is being raised with MORALS and INTELLIGENCE....
My daughter will KNOW at 15 she is too young to be having sex. She is being raised as an individual and will not have the need to do it just because everyone else is ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 14th, 2006 10:11 PM |
and PS Tylersmummy....
Why is there only ONE post with your name on it, Did you change your name just to have a shot at me did you?...lol
What I want to know STUPID, is where these kids parents are?
I know that accidents can happen. But there are KIDS on here posting (15 year olds) that actually WANT children. What is missing in their lives that they feel the need to go out and get themselves pregnant.....ON PURPOSE?
Read the post properly stupid ↑ |
| Name: Lolly | Date: Dec 15th, 2006 4:01 PM |
| I dont think most of the people claiming to be 15 and wanting babies really are. If you look at there posts most of them are really strange. I think most of them are jus sickos you get on forums. Also I agree that your daughter probably will be experimenting with sex at 15 however much you dont like the idea. I mean I was brought up by one of the most loving families ever n taught not to do this n not to do that but i still did it. Its just part of been a teenager I think. Id jus always encourage your daughter to talk openly with you bout sex n stuff cos i think thats where it went wrong for me cos i was always reali worried bout buying condoms n stuff in case they found out so I mean id rather my daughter was having sex but was protected to the max than having sex and not using anything cos she was scared. I dunno just my opinion. ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Dec 21st, 2006 10:44 PM |
I take this post a little offensive because first of all, I am 16 and I have a little 2 month old. Me and my boyfriend never expected to get pregnant it just kind of happened. We always were carful and used protection. But look at me now I am a mommy, and a proud one at that. I work for my money and so does Mason so we can support our child together. Sure my mom helps once in awhile, but most of the time its just me and Mason.
Hiddy, I think you should mind your own business and worry about yourself. These girls, did it to them selves but they dont need people like you to put them down. Babycrowd is open to anyone and they can post whatever they want. So why don't you let it be? Do you like to put young girls down or is it just the fact that you like to sturr up trouble?
I think most people that read this will agree with me. I believe that I am a good mother and I dont really need people like you telling me that I am wrong for having a baby. Pffff get a life! ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 26th, 2006 9:35 AM |
15, 16 year olds...ya cant tell them anything... they know it all!
My point exactly! ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 26th, 2006 9:38 AM |
And if you read THE DAMN POST PROPERLY you would see Im addressing teenagers that SET OUT TO GET PREGNANT.
I dont agree that accidents are really any excuse either, although SOME have merit, such as contraception not working and so on. But why are teenagers too god damn lazy to go out and buy condoms?!?!?!? WHICH I MIGHT ADD, they should be using ANYWAY because of the risk of sexually transmitted disease!!!!!
You wanna be a diseased ridden pregnant teenager, go ahead, its YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 26th, 2006 9:40 AM |
I am DONE here....but what I want to know is....WHERE THE HELL ARE YOUR PARENTS.....and.........WHAT THE HELL are you doing having sex at 15 ANYWAY?!?!?!?
In Australia, its called STATUTORY RAPE my friend. AND IM PRETTY DAMN SURE ITS CLASSED AS WORSE IN THE USA! ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 26th, 2006 9:43 AM |
AND ONE MORE THING.....WHAT THE HELL GIVES YOU THE RIGHT TO BRING A CHILD INTO THIS WORLD WHEN YOU ARE STILL A CHILD YOURSELF?!?!?!?!
Im 38 Im married and myself and my husband work. I STILL find it hard sometimes to provide all the things my daughter needs and wants and I ONLY HAVE ONE!!!!
So I find it PRETTY DAMN HARD TO BELIEVE THAT A 15 or 16 year old can do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Ayame | Date: Dec 27th, 2006 12:34 AM |
| I know someone 18 who tried to have a child, got one, and is an amazing mother. She is financially stable, great with her child, a lot of such things necessary. Oh, and married as well. ↑ |
| Name: CindyMK | Date: Dec 27th, 2006 1:08 AM |
In all honesty it's none of our buisness what these teenagers do. While I agree it is annoying to listen to them complain and then attack older women when they state their opinion, there not a whole lot we can do about it.
Teens are experimenting with sex at younger ages every year, I myself am 23, had my son when I was 19 and while I don't regret it, it did put a huge strain on my life, finacially and socially. Of course being an unmarried single mother puts a strain on things too, but I personally belive that the men who father some children are not worth keeping around, like my sons father who was violent, cruel and uses drugs.
I started having sex at 13, so I've no right to judge any of these girls, however I never slept around and I always used protection. I had sex once when i wasn't on birth control and it was just my luck that the condom broke and I ended up pregnant.
It's quite sad that these girls are getting pregnant at 15 or 16 and while they think it wont put a major dent in their life, they are wrong. There was alot I wanted to do, like go to college and travel the world but with a three year old and very little living family it's near impossible to do. All we can do is tell these girls our own experiances and if you haven't been in their shoes, please don't preach to them, it is not going to get through. They will learn these lessons by their own mistakes. ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 27th, 2006 6:09 AM |
| Just because you started having sex at 13....doesnt mean you have no right to judge these girls....tell them...tell them that you wish you hadnt of, tell them about safe sex. You of all people have EVERY right to judge! ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Dec 27th, 2006 6:26 PM |
| yea hiddy are attacking us young mothers because you stated that your daughter would be taught with morals and intelligence. Are you saying that us young mothers arent intelligence or werent raised with morals? I took it that you were. To me it sounds like you are just here to start a fight or sturr up trouble. ↑ |
| Name: harper1990 | Date: Dec 27th, 2006 6:27 PM |
| i dont know if you are but by the sounds of it you are a selfish bitch! ↑ |
| Name: ash2 | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 3:18 AM |
| While i do agree with you about them needing to be on birth control , actually not doin it at all....these girls come on here expecting our advice and who are we to shun them ? I think it is great they can turn to someone that they do not know for advice... ↑ |
| Name: Hiddy | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 6:11 AM |
Oh crap....most of them get on here wanting to fit in and play mummies....but they havent got a clue. Whats a 15 year old doing on a pregnancy and raising children web site?
They should be looking at fashion and playing computer games! ↑ |
| Name: Ayame | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 6:15 AM |
| Birthcontrol should be passed out at schools. You should have sex with one you love, and not just because you're young and THINK you are in love. ↑ |
| Name: ash2 | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 12:16 AM |
| Also want to add that alot of them are not sure what to think about sex if their parents are not their to teach them..... ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 1st, 2007 7:20 PM |
| ok ive got to say this is gettin abit of a joke whilst i dont agree with a 15 yr old going out and having sex and certainly hope my daughters dont we are not living in the victorian era. This is the modern age and teenagers experiment. I had my first child at 17 i was not going out and having sex at 15 and my parents talked to me about sex and making sure it was with someone u love. But havent any one of you fallen hard for aguy when u was a teenager? or was you not allowed to date boys? It is not just the girls responsibility to provide contraception boys stick it in as well there is no excuse for them to carry a condom around with them. What are we ment to do put our daughters on the pill at the age of 10? show our sons how to put a condom on correctly? Tennagers come on here looking for advice perhaps they are scared to talk to there parents u are right they are children and talking to the in a nasty manner aint helpin. ↑ |
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