| Please give this baby up for adoption IMMEDIATELY ↑ |
| look if u didn't want him y did u keep him?i am 15 to and im about 2 have a baby girl. i no wat its like cuz i have nece and she is hurrbile but never do i yell at her and say i hate u and i wish my brother never had u. its not his fult that u can't handel him so don't kurke out on him. he's a baby thats wat they do. i can take care of my baby that's about 2 come. look u just need 2 no how 2 take care of him get someone 2 help u and walk u through ok ↑ |
| Hospitals DO NOT discharge you the next day after a C-section!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It's 3 days later, 2 days for a vaginal delivery. A hospital doesn't discharge you the day after "hemmorage" S C A M ↑ |
| I hav to disagree with you s.m.b. I had a c-section with my second daughter and they cut me open at 1pm on Sept the 5th and I was walking by that evening. I went home the next evening. I was only there a little over 24 hours. It completely depends on how well your body has handled the surgury. Now I am not saying it was smart to go home early. I was doing laundry and dishes just a few days after she was born.... but I also broke my incision open numerous time and ended up in the hospital with air trapped in the lining of my lung.... point is everyone is different... not everything is a scam. ↑ |
| HI SOME TIMES PEOPLE CAN BE JUDGEMENTAL BUT YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE JUST A PERSON AND THIS SEEMS TO HAVE BEEN QUITE A TRUAMATISING EXPERIENCE FOR YOU SO DONT FEEL THAT YOU ARE THE PROBLEM BUT THAT THERE IS A PROBLEM I CANT DIAGNOSE YOU BUT IT SEEMS TO ME YOU HAVE POST PARTUM DEPRESSION AND A MAJORITY OF MOMS EXPERIENCE THIS THE GOOD NEWS IS IT CAN BE TREATED AND IT IS RECOGNISED SO YOU DONT HAVETO HIDE IT IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE YOU HAVE MANY REASONS TO FEEL FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY BUT YOUR BABY DOES NOT DESERVE THOES NEGATIVE FEELINGS BEING PROJECTED ONTO HIM BUT HE DEFINITLY NEEDS YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU AGE IS AND I JUST WANT TO SAY WELL DONE FOR COMINGSO FAR ALREADY JUST ASK FOR HELP CLINICS DOCTORS HELP LINES ARE ALL AVAILABLE TO YOU MAYBE YOUR MOM CAN HELP YOU. DONT PUNISH YOURSELF MANY PEOPLE GO THROUGH THIS ↑ |
| When I was pregnant with my son I couldn't wait for the day he was born. I had been told by family and friends that the first time you hold your baby you'll feel a love like no other. The day my son was born I felt nothing, infect I didn't even have the desire to hold him (I tried to tell myself tomorrow would be different because I had a c-section so I was tired for all this). The entire time I was in the hospital I tried my best to bond with him but never felt the love that I was told was you'd feel. When I went home I hated being alone with him. There where times that I was home with him alone when he wouldn't stop crying that I would have to put him in his crib in his nursery, close the door behind me and walk away so that I wouldn't do anything to him. I hated my him. I hated that he. I would literally think of ways that I could hurt him. I went to speak to my OBGYN and she prescribed me an antidepressant, turned out that I had postpartum Depression. Not uncommon but can really mess with you feelings. I to thought of killing myself, infact I did hurt myself because I decided that I would rather hurt myself then my son. Within three days on the antidrepressant I was feeling like myself and I finally did bond with my son. This is nothing to be ashamed of but definately something you should take care of. ↑ |
| todlers seem like they are a hard age ↑ |
| HI, my name is Tiffany and my husband names is Jim. We have been looking to adopt, if their is anyone that would like to talk to us our email [email protected]. ↑ |
| HI, my name is Tiffany and my husband is Jim. We are wanting to adopt, if their is anyone that would like to talk to us our email [email protected] ↑ |
| I think you have postpardum depression which is very common. Brooke sheilds wrote a book on it. I also think you should get help right away because it is very common and very treatable. ↑ |
| I know that this is an old post and hope the lucky-star did reach out to her doctor. It definately sounds like Post Partum Depression. I had it with both of my children. Untreated Post Partum actualy can and will become worse if left untreated. You should not feel ashamed for feeling the way you do but please please talk to your OBGYN or your doctor about this. He/she can start you on something so that you may start to bond with your child. ↑ |
