| Name: Nijel | Date: Jul 6th, 2007 11:53 PM |
OMG - We are planning on our first. I am black and he is white....
Please email me back at [email protected].
God never fails - Nijel ↑ |
| Name: jeff | Date: Jul 17th, 2007 11:30 PM |
| Hey, im 17 and my gf is 17 im white and she is mexican and we are now pregnaut..im realy excited but im wondering what our child will look like. any thoughts? ↑ |
| Name: Trish | Date: Aug 3rd, 2007 7:39 AM |
I just wanted to let the "LAmommy" know that even though the south is stereotyped as being prejudiced it is not a bad place to visit. I am white and my husband is black. We have been married for 9 yrs. We have three biracial daughters. We live in MS. I have to travel to AL,GA,LA,and around MS with my job. Everywhere I go in the south, I see blended families with bi or multi racial children. In this day and time, it is more accepted in the south as opposed to ten years ago. Of course on occasion we still get the double glance, or the questions. That will be the case anywhere you go. But 9 times out of ten, any comment we get on our family is how beautiful our children are. We have taught our girls about their different backgrounds, and educated them on the aspects of racism. They know who they are as a person. They are God's children. Just like any "all" white or "all" black child would be; a child of GOD. I hope this will help to ease your negativity of the south. I love living in the south, I wouldn't have it any other way. You really should visit the south, it is beautiful.
To the ones out there who think it is just plain horrible to see a blended family, let me tell you a little saying that my oldest daughter told a child at the park one day. A little white girl asked my daughter what color she was, was she black or mexican or what. My daughter calmly told the child "I am the same color as you are." The other child said, "no you're not". My daughter replied, " Yes I am because in God eyes we are all one color." The child didn't know what to say and then after a minute she said I guess you're right, want to go swing with me. You see adults instill in their children the question of race. After my daughter affirmed the fact that she was no different than the other child, that child was okay with it. So instead of showing your children the differences in races by your actions, show them that we are all the same in the eyes of God. ↑ |
| Name: Carla | Date: Aug 25th, 2007 10:48 PM |
i am 18 years old, i live in Portugal, Europe and i cant explain how or why, but i only imagine myself in a relationship with black guys.
but in my country interracial relationships are not accept very good by the society, they always make comments that not only hurt the people who i am with but make me feel like i have some serious problem .
i know i am young to b mom yet, but i dream a interracial family almost everyday .
if someone care to chat more . please do
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: jdourt | Date: Sep 1st, 2007 11:28 PM |
| Turnip (Brassica rapa L.) is a root Brassica crop and has been used as a vegetable for human consumption in Europe since prehistoric times. Turnip root has been a popular livestock fodder for at least 600 years wherever the crop can be grown. For most of that time turnip roots have been managed as forage. Researchers in the United States determined in the early 1900s that turnip roots are valuable energy sources for young ruminant animals. However, livestock farmers at that time were turning away from the Brassica root crops (which also include rutabagas or swedes) for fodder because much hand labor was required for the production and utilization of the large roots. One study showed that the labor requirement on a nutrient basis for these crops was three times that needed for corn silage production. ↑ |
| Name: nikki | Date: Sep 6th, 2007 7:16 PM |
I am a black women my husband is white
my husbands boss is a bigot and my husband made me drop him off at the corner of his job so they wouldnt see his black wife and son i havent spoken to my husband for two days i dont know what to do but pray ↑ |
| Name: cherisalorraine | Date: Sep 6th, 2007 9:13 PM |
| love your husband and understand that he is trying to make a life for you and your child it happens in a lot of situations and it will continue to happen as long as the world is ignorant to love remember that your child is going to face alot of these types of issues and the way he sees you handle it will help him cope and be confident so talk to your husband remember i said to him not at him and try to understand more of his side like how long he needs to do this for the sake of his job ↑ |
| Name: Crystal | Date: Sep 11th, 2007 3:09 PM |
It really breaks my heart that people can't just accept the fact that two people can fall in love regardless of looks. And by looks I mean pretty, fat, gorgeous, skinny, black, white, asian, bald, whatever!
True love and strong partnerships do not come easy to any of us and to limit yourself to the confines of race or anything other physical attribute is only detrimental to your happiness. Attraction that grows into love and respect is what is important.
I certainly can appreciate if you are not attracted to someone for whatever the reason. You cannot and should not fake affection. And if you're not attracted to someone then so be it. But just as no one should feel obligated to date outside their race, no one should feel wrong about interracial dating either.
I know couples of the same race who fight both physically and verbally and abuse each other daily, yet judge my white husband and me (who is black) about our solid 8 year relationship, 6 of which have been in marriage. We rarely argue and when we do we strive to do it in an intelligent, constructive manner and we've never frivolously broke up just to reunite and start the mad cycle again. We are in love and committed to each other and no man - black, white or otherwise has ever loved or supported me more.
Exactly what are people afraid of?! If it's not for you, don't do it! But leave everyone else alone to live their own lives and to find their own happiness. No one wants to deny you your happiness with your same race relationships. Who are you to judge ours? ↑ |
| Name: habi | Date: Nov 3rd, 2007 4:45 PM |
| Name: susan | Date: Nov 26th, 2007 11:09 PM |
| im a married white women with a white husband and im pregnant with twins from a black man.how do i tell my husband? ↑ |
| Name: sbm | Date: Dec 26th, 2007 4:34 PM |
| I am in an interracial relationship. My husband is black and I am white. We are also expecting our first child. We are both thrilled and the majority of both of our families are very supportive. ↑ |
| Name: dumb white guy | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 8:37 AM |
| i would like to talk to a brother ↑ |
| Name: hi freind | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 8:42 AM |
| Name: Laura | Date: Jan 24th, 2008 6:58 AM |
| I'm glad to have read this...I am mexican and my husband is chinese..we live in the bay area, and although you might think people are used to seeing interracial relationships, i feel the asian community are the ones that give us the most looks, first of all, i dont think they expected a mexican and a chinese, probably white and chinese, but i have heard a couple of negative comments from my husband's aunt, and boss (both chinese) such as: "how did your girl friend get here to the states? did she swim?" fortunately my husband (boyfriend at the time) translated that for me and made his aunt feel like a jackass, and then one time when we saw his boss during the weekend he invited us to lunch along with his two kids, then he asked me "dont you mexicans eat a lot of beans all the time" and fortunately his bratty kid answered for me "how would you know dad, all you eat is chinese food, you never want to try anything" - the reason why i bring this up, is because if i am being judge like this, i am afraid my kids (i'm due march 3rd 2008) will be judge the same way....but i am going to teach them to stay strong and to never let others put them down ↑ |
| Name: LIZA | Date: Feb 2nd, 2008 12:34 AM |
| I am white, my husband Mexican Indian. Have 3 previouschildren. Are trying for a bi-racial baby since he has never had the joy of having a child from infancy. Congratulations!! ↑ |
| Name: misscolombianitaa | Date: Feb 3rd, 2008 3:33 PM |
| I'm hispanic [colombian] and my man is black... i'm currently 18 weeks pregnant with our first child and so far i havent had any bad experiences... good luck! ↑ |
| Name: Lynn | Date: Feb 24th, 2008 1:56 AM |
| Name: ASHLEY L | Date: Feb 26th, 2008 6:30 PM |
I KNO WUT U MEAN......I'M BLACK N WHITE N MY HUSBAND IS ASIAN...
MY DAD GIVES ME A LOT OF SHIIT CUZ I MARRIED SUMONE OUT MY DADS RACE ↑ |
| Name: ASHLEY L | Date: Feb 26th, 2008 6:33 PM |
Laura- I KNO EXACTLY HOW U FEEL ABOUT BEIN MARRIED TO AN ASIAN HUSBAND....
MY HUSBAND IS HMONG.....THERE LYKE CHINESE BUT DON'T HAVE THERE OWN COUNTRY.....
PPL JUST HATE.. ↑ |
| Name: MED | Date: Mar 2nd, 2008 7:03 AM |
| I think it funny about people having trouble with interracial relationships. I'm Black and my baby's mother to be 3 weeks from now happens to be white, what's realy wrong with that. Both sides of our family are ok and even excited about the unborn baby. I think its about how you guys applied your self in public becouse both white and Black people we face every day treat us with respect. We both comute to New York every day from Jersey. We realy don't care about what people think though. In my opinion mix/ interracial kids are the only leading people that can fix the long silence racial war in the US beleive it or not. Thanks ↑ |
| Name: kelly singh | Date: Mar 5th, 2008 7:09 PM |
as long as you love each other dont worrie about anyone else.
im white and married to an indian, we ave 3 wonderful chidren. people can and have said hurtful things to us but as the years have gone on we have lernt to just rise above it. My eldest childs sayin is "were all diffrent the world wud b boaring if we were all the same" i think that says it all. ↑ |
| Name: ItalianBeauty | Date: Mar 25th, 2008 9:59 PM |
| Hi,My name is Tiffany im white/Italian and my husband is black/indian/white and we are expecting our 1st kid in sep08 he is 17 and i am 18 we are so in love and spend every moment together he is so special to me and im so excited about having a mixed baby with him to me mixed babies are beautiful and to all the haters SCREW YA'll!!Its a beautiful thing and if it wasnt right y would it be so beautiful!!!..Anyways i have some family who have completly shut me out,but to me i say they obviously wasnt my real family my close family loves my husband & is so excited about our baby !well Good luck to all you out there and remember (Love has no color...) :) :) ↑ |
| Name: rimmer | Date: Apr 20th, 2008 8:00 PM |
| Name: Veronica | Date: May 1st, 2008 9:20 PM |
| Name: Veronica | Date: May 1st, 2008 9:21 PM |
Hi
I am a Black female and I have been married to my husband ( who happen to be white) for 10yrs now. ↑ |
| Name: Tiffany | Date: May 16th, 2008 2:29 AM |
| Hey I am white/Italian,and my husband is black:) We got married in January,and expecting our 1st child in September! I love him so much we actually started out as close friends we connected so much,and we fell in love.He is my world I can't imagine life without him.People might talk,but I don't care Love has no color:)I love to hear from other interracial couples it makes me smile:) ↑ |
| Name: Krystina | Date: May 20th, 2008 4:41 PM |
| I am white and my boyfriend is black (muslim) and I am also expecting. I am 2 months pregnant and have been wondering what our baby will look like and what traits will dominate. ↑ |
| Name: loulou | Date: Jun 1st, 2008 11:24 PM |
| Name: babedolll | Date: Jun 29th, 2008 5:57 PM |
| babedolII people call my kids niggers all the time. ↑ |
| Name: tercsi | Date: Jul 31st, 2008 5:15 PM |
what is a good town on long island or new york city area for an interracial
family? ↑ |
| Name: Midnightsmom | Date: Aug 15th, 2008 10:46 AM |
niggers are typical poor trash!
[email protected] ↑ |
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