| Name: oilybabyman | Date: Feb 8th, 2008 3:14 PM |
| she laeraned her lesson now she barely talks. ↑ |
| Name: alaychia | Date: Feb 18th, 2008 1:18 AM |
| You need to start giving him popins ↑ |
| Name: dana | Date: Feb 24th, 2008 4:39 AM |
| Name: jennifer | Date: Feb 28th, 2008 4:10 AM |
| my daughter is out of control too your not the only one out their i feel the same i happend to enroll my daughter in pre-school her teacher's son has adhd so i told that my daughter's doctor told me she's showing sings of having adhd the teacher told me trust me she's not she told me you wouldn't even know she was their the doctor and the teacher if she had adhd you can't put the kids on meds till the age of 7 besides i wouldn't put my kids on meds and think like i do i don't give a rat's but what the family thinks of children i have 3 kids 4,2,1 ↑ |
| Name: destiny | Date: Mar 24th, 2008 7:20 PM |
| Name: ana | Date: Mar 26th, 2008 6:37 AM |
| Name: Cassie | Date: Apr 8th, 2008 7:04 PM |
| Steph, I was web surfing on out of control kids (my two year old son is totally out of control) First let me say I have heard few answers in my search that do not try to either sugest that I'm not a good parent or my child has a mental issue. Can it not be somthing else? Can someone tell us, if we are such bad parents why we are on the search to help our children? I had my child in daycare, and now I am a stay at home mother, I am pregnant, I have a two and a four year old. I have tried time out, spankings, talks, sometimes there is no quick fix answer, and some times other parents who never had the extreme actions of these children are clueless, I sugest a doctor, family, and prayer. I hope both you and I find the real answer in our search friend. ↑ |
| Name: Jennifer | Date: Apr 15th, 2008 9:25 AM |
I have a 8 year old, a 4 year old, and a 2year old. so I can relate.
My son basically does not respond to anything either. One thing that I learned is that time out works great. they hate to sit. I'm to the point where taking things from him also does not work. He laughs at me, which my 2 year old is now trying also. I did have my son tested for adhd last year at 3 and they said that he is fine in school, it is an at home thing so that was ruled out. I will tell you that if his behavior is not the same everywhere else as it is at home, then it is not adhd. Thats what my sons doctor told me. I completely understand what you are going through. THere are days that (as sad as this might sound), I am so happy to be away from him because I don't have to deal with the chaos. I heard that there is some kind of statistic out there about little boys between the ages 4 and 5 who have behaviour problems. I guess it has something to do with not being able to express feelings so they act out in terriable ways. If it makes you feel any better, at 3 years old, I grounded my son to his room, some how he popped his screan out and jumped out his window and took off. I just couldn't believe it. I tried to get the police to come out and try to scare him a little, but he was too young. Everyone says it is faze, well I sure hope so. So now I'm kind of thinking about maybe family counseling. I am just lost. I can't take much more of his behaviour, before I completely lose it. Have you ever tried focusing on the good things that he does?? and just out of the blue tell him how good he is being whenever he is behaving?? That does work. At least for me it did until we just recently moved, but he did a complete 360. Acted just like a normal kid again. Try it and see how it works. make a point to do it all the time, don't forget the hugs and the I love yous. He may jusy be trying to get your attention. and he knows it works this, but if you focus on the good things he does you might be suprised. Try to make time to spend it with just the two of you. This may be all he wants, is your attention. He has just learned that by being bad he'll get it. kids don't care weather it's good or bad they know one way they will get it. I hope this helps a little. good luck. ↑ |
| Name: cc | Date: Apr 25th, 2008 2:44 AM |
| what is this chat room for? ↑ |
| Name: SIMPI | Date: May 5th, 2008 4:22 AM |
| I have a 4 almost 5 year old and was told the same thing picked up by Ga public schools evaled for free and in a wonder ful program for kids from all income levals. 123 magic by Dr Thomas Phelan helps us stay in control. Spanking only builds anger and will increase your violence in return. We have avioded meds to this point because we are so unable to justify with all the side effects. Its hard hang in there. ↑ |
| Name: Joma | Date: May 7th, 2008 6:13 PM |
| I have a 8 yr old son and he is getting out of control. Im a single mom and he gets on my nerves sometimes. What should I do? ↑ |
| Name: lindsay | Date: May 8th, 2008 5:42 AM |
| Name: lindsay | Date: May 8th, 2008 5:45 AM |
| HELP!!!! My four year old son Gavin is out of control. He doesn't listen to me.Anyone that keeps him says he is an angel but for me he far from an angel. WHY?????? ↑ |
| Name: kim | Date: May 16th, 2008 2:36 AM |
| yeah i would like to find a chat room for children with autism ↑ |
| Name: DEEDEE | Date: May 20th, 2008 3:33 AM |
| HI UR LITTEL GIRL IS MENTLY JKJKJKJKJKJKJKJK ↑ |
| Name: tyler smith | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 3:20 PM |
| Name: william coles | Date: Jun 28th, 2008 9:43 PM |
| Name: laua | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 4:36 AM |
| i need some adivce my 5 year old is geting bad i dont know what to do ↑ |
| Name: sin | Date: Jul 11th, 2008 2:02 AM |
| you know wat you should do iz take her were ever you go and spoil her and give her her own passifier. ↑ |
| Name: angela | Date: Aug 2nd, 2008 7:38 PM |
| really?i want to help but where do u live? ↑ |
| Name: Geof f | Date: Aug 26th, 2008 12:14 AM |
| Our son was diagnosed at 3 years old. It took a tremendous amount of pushing and prodding on my wife's part to convince our doctor(s) to have him tested and that ADHD was a possibility. We found that our doctors were no talways good advocates for our son - no one knows him better than we do and our gut instinct was correct. Our doctor only saw him for 30-45 minutes every so often. They can't possibly understand what you're going through if they're not with your son all day. You will not regret having him checked. If your doctor resists, he/she isn't looking our for your son's best interest. Good luck... ↑ |
| Name: bobby | Date: Sep 2nd, 2008 2:38 AM |
| Name: kristy j | Date: Sep 4th, 2008 12:33 AM |
| first of all your pediatrician can not evaluate him he has to go to a psych. doc. and my son has already done that and he is six and all they want to do is put him on meds and i just think there is a way around medicine. my oldest son now 10 was the same way and i changed his diet and i did not take everything away just anything that has red dye in it . but this does not work with everychild its not working with my six year old ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Sep 7th, 2008 6:13 AM |
| do you know how to relaze him ↑ |
| Name: amber | Date: Sep 29th, 2008 2:19 AM |
| my pediarician said he would not even diagnose adhd until my sonis six ↑ |
| Name: apple | Date: Oct 19th, 2008 5:58 PM |
| take him or her to a play place for the hole day ↑ |
| Name: jordan | Date: Dec 24th, 2008 9:57 AM |
| well what you sould do is see a theirpist go to a hospital and ask the pro's and see if he is dingnossed ↑ |
| Name: chick 473 | Date: Dec 28th, 2008 3:25 AM |
| I have a niece and she has two kids the girl is 5 and the boy is 4 he is a holly terror at home and every where they go,No matter what the mother does he still goes right back to being mean and in to trouble constantly he loves to push the mothers buttons he is so demanding about he would tare the house upafte she has cleaned it.WHen ever he gets a hold of lighters or knifves he would try to threaten it with different people including his mother no matter how hard she hides those he knows how to find them,Its a waist of time when she punnishing him because he will go right back to his mean evil self.He was in a store picking up toy gus and he would I'm going to shoot every one in this store his mother never did tough him that his dad must of done that the parents are together,So what should niece do her 5 year old daughter is nothing compaired to her brother.She is dreading putting him into school as mean as he is,If you have some addvice I woulld be glad to know this is her Aunt ↑ |
| Name: kelly | Date: Jan 16th, 2009 7:13 PM |
| wat the heck are u guys talkin bout weirdos ↑ |
| Name: Christy | Date: Jan 24th, 2009 2:15 AM |
| I cam identify with so many of these posts! I think when we are at the end of our rope we search out others who know what we're going through! I have 3 children ages 10,4 and 2. Our 4 year old son is out of control or rather in control of our household! He screams, hits, throws toys, is defiant. I have a degree in Early child development and have dealt with children like this but never thought it would be my kid! His behavior is making our home miserable and our marriage is taking a back seat to his uncontrollable behavior. I am told by his pre-k teacher that he is not demonstrating theses behaviors at school. I don't know what to do? We've tried time outs...he laughs and get up. I've tried holding him there which works but defeats the purpose. He can be the most loving child but then turn and be the opposite 1minute later. His behavior is at it's worst when visitors come over or when he's tired which is everyday because he will not nap. I run a in home childcare and have had clients pull their children because of his behavior. I’ve also had potential clients choose not to attend because of his behavior while they were interviewing! My 2 year old is displaying similar behaviors due to his modeling! Our 10 year old did not display these types of behaviors when she was young. We made the decision long ago w/ our first child to not spank…however our sons behavior has driven us to spank many a time…but in reality it does nothing to curtail his behavior and leaves us feeling horrible! I think he may be ADHD…but was just hoping if I wait it out he would grow out of it? I don’t think our family can wait it out any longer so I guess the next step would be to get him assessed for ADHD? ↑ |
| Name: zen | Date: Jan 24th, 2009 10:58 PM |
| I am a parent of a 12yr old and i am looking for answer. For some reason my daughter can't seem to consentrate in class and she to so very hiper how can i handle this situation? ↑ |
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