| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 1:18 PM |
| Oh so you actually got your hair cut. Now not only do you have no hair, but your MIL has a hold on you forever. Silly silly girl ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 3:56 PM |
| You are wrong Briseis MIL no longer can tell me what to do but my husband has decided that my hair will remain boy short I will get it cut at the Gents from now on ↑ |
| Name: Debbie | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 4:24 PM |
| I cant understand why you are still letting your MIL now your husband dictate how you look or what you wear.Dont you think that you have been humiliated and punished for what you did its time to STOP.You are a stupid young girl you have been punished in the most public manner time to draw a line I think .I understand that people will make fun of you but lets face you deserve it. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 5:17 PM |
| Your husband has decided how you'll wear your hair. Good lord girl! If you want it boy short then that's fine. But if you want to grow it long, you grow it long. My hair is real long, and my man would like it shorter but I say Hell no. It's my hair. I'll wear it how I please. Get a grip girl. It's your hair! ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 5:37 PM |
| You know what I'd have done. If my MIL caught me in bed with another man, and said I needed to shave my head or she'd tell my husband? I'd just smile at her, call her a bluff, and tell her to get the Hell out of my house. Then I'd organise it with a friend to pretend that I was out with her all afternoon. So then, when she told my man, I'd deny it and get my friend to back me up. That way, the MIL would look a lying fool and learn not to mess with you again. ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 6:41 PM |
| Yea thats great to say that now Briseis I have a shaved head I just thought if I did what she said I would get away with it but it just went bad to worse for me.I just cant understand what a real nasty bitch you are Debbie I hope someone catchs you one day and you get humiliated i was only having a bit of fun now the whole area laughs when I go by. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 6:51 PM |
Catches me? I'd never cheat on my man! I'm not a slut ...
And actually I was only trying to offer advice should it happen to you again. So less of that backchat from you. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 6:56 PM |
| I also have the MIL from Hell, and I'm sick and tired of these interferring MILs who think they can do what they like and say what they like. It pisses me off, and it pisses me off even further when women let them get away with it like you did! I know you can't change the past, but if your MIL tried to blackmail you again, I was offering advice on what to do. No need to be so f'n nasty. ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 6:56 PM |
| Backchat thats just great you talk like my MIL are you all nasty people out there is there no one that understands? ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 6:59 PM |
| Backchat is just a word! It's patronising yes but when you tell people you hope they'll be humilated and that they're nasty bitches just for offering you advice, what do you expect? ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:01 PM |
| Noone is going to understand why you did what you did Jenny. Your MIL didn't humilate you. You humilated yourself by doing what she told you, even though what she was telling you to do was both unreasonable and damn cruel! I hope and pray you'll never let anyone walk all over you like this again. ↑ |
| Name: Debbie | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:03 PM |
| Who the hell do you think you are Jenny dont forget you are the one thats had their backside tanned and head shaved you must be REAL smart to let that happen I might be a bitch but im the bitch with all my HAIR not a bald silly silly little girl like YOU. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:05 PM |
| Ohhhh hold on hold on. I thought you were calling ME a nasty bitch, but you were in fact referring to Debbie ... Sorry for the mixup! BUT nothing of what I have said to you was 'nasty'. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:07 PM |
| Jenny, just curious, why did you post this in 'alternative family'? ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:09 PM |
| Sorry its about my MIL thought it was the best place ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:13 PM |
| Ah OK. Is your MIL completely out of the picture now? Or does your man still see her? My MIL is completely out of the picture ... she's a real bitch. ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:16 PM |
| She has gone but he still makes me wear the big knickers and I have to get my hair cut real short a short back and sides he calls it YUK.But thats the price I have to pay my own fault. ↑ |
| Name: Debbie | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:17 PM |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:20 PM |
No it isn't Jenny. You made a mistake. The way I see it is this. If a person cheats, their partner has 2 choices.
1. To leave their partner as they would be unable to forgive them or trust them again.
2. To forgive their partner and trust them again, but never to use their mistake against them or punish them for it.
Your husband is being a hypocrite. Hes staying with you, but he's still punishing you, holding a grudge, unforgiving. He needs to make his mind up, and there is only one way to do it.
Tell him you will be growing your hair long and wearing whatever items of clothing you choose, but that you will never cheat on him again. If he doesn't agree with this, then leave him! I know that's tough, but what kind of man puts the love of their life through this disgrace? Lay the cards down now or you will regret it. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:22 PM |
| No it isn't Debbie. It's shocking that she is being treated in this horrible way, and even more shocking that she thinks she deserves it. Noone deserves to be treated like this. ↑ |
| Name: Debbie | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:45 PM |
| Get real bris this stupid girl let her MIL take her to a gents barbers she stripped naked then swore at the female barber who put her over her knee and gave her a well deserved spanking then she shaved her head and you think I should not call her you are living in another world she is a silly stupid girl who deserves what she got!! ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:56 PM |
Ohhhh Debbie, the hostility in you is rank! Settle down girl. I'm not saying what Jenny did was in any way NORMAL. I'd never let anyone treat me in such a foul way. And like I said to Jenny, she caused her own humiliation by allowing her MIL to do it to her. But that's done now.
I'm talking about the way her husband is currently treating her, and telling her she shouldn't put up with this treatment any longer. Whether she chooses to listen to me or not is up to her, but at least I am trying to help by offering advice, not stooping to her MIL's level by continuing to abuse her, like you are. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 7:58 PM |
And yes I agree that Jenny has been at best 'silly' and I hope she learns from her mistakes.
But if you think continuing to verbally abuse her is helping her, then it is YOU who is living on another planet. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 8:01 PM |
Actually, now I think of it, this all sounds a bit far fetched to me ... a barber put this girl over her knee and spanked her, allowed the other customers to laugh at her, and make her strip ... That would be enough to have the barbers shop closed down and for the barber who did this to be up in court for assault.
Has anyone thought about how far fetched this sounds??? ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 8:08 PM |
| I mean if my MIL took me to a barber shop for a 'punishment' haircut and did what she claims her MIL did, the barber would first off refuse to cut my hair as barbers are only licenced to cut men's hair, and second off ask my MIL to leave as her behaviour would be disturbing the other customers who would be uncomfortable at the sight of this abuse ... That would be a normal situation ... ↑ |
| Name: Jenny | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 9:42 PM |
| I know it all sounds unreal Briseis but thats what happened no one in the barbers said stop the fat cow of a woman humiliated me in front of all those men there was no need to spank me like a child I will never live it down.The headshave was to be my punishment not the public spanking im sure my MIL arranged it all but it was real it did hurt and no one stopped her.Thank you for trying to talk to me and I do realy mean that I do feel so alone sometimes thanks. ↑ |
| Name: Debbie | Date: Feb 17th, 2008 10:08 PM |
| She wanted to be punished bris she just got more than she expected now her MIL has spread the word about and she is a laughing stock.Its true she will never live it down I agree its a totaly over the top punishent her MIL must be from hell.It is her own fault she played around and got chaught but I think the punishment haircut was all that was needed.Its a hard life for some. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Feb 18th, 2008 2:19 PM |
Well if she wanted to be punished, then she got what she wanted and shouldn't complain.
But if she didn't want to be punished, then she should never have let her disgraceful MIL put her through Hell.
Either way, I can't condone the treatment involved. If it were me, I'd be right on the phone to the police charging the barber with assault, and telling my hubby the way it's gonna be.
Either way, I'm done here. ↑ |
| Name: Danina | Date: Feb 18th, 2008 8:45 PM |
| I saay own up and take the consequences. No one is innocent, we are all deceivers and liars. Your husband would probably do the same, if he could get away with it. I would not allow my mother-in-law tell me what to do nor would I give her that much power as you would, if you go ahead with her request. I think she is very silly and stupid. She should stay out of it. If she is doing this to you, then she is just as guilty as she is deceiving her own son by keeping the secret and manipulating you for her own selfish power needs. Go to him and you know what to say....face it, you screwed up, now pay for it and don't do it again, and perhaps seek counselling. You give too much of yourself. good luck ↑ |
| Name: elizabethvivar | Date: Mar 18th, 2008 12:59 AM |
| wat to do if aboy kiss u but he has a girlfrend and he knows dat u luv him ? ↑ |
| Name: AimeeLynne | Date: Mar 18th, 2008 7:42 PM |
| JENNY, GET A GRIP! WE ARE IN THE MILLENIUM! WHAT NEXT? ARE YOU GOING TO WEAR A RED A ON YOUR SHIRT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE? GIMME A BREAK. AND WHERE THE HELL DO YOU GO TO GET A NAKED HAIRCUT AND SPANKING..THIS SOUNDS SO MADE UP IT ISN'T EVEN FUNNY. AND IF IT IS REAL, GIRL, YOU NEED A NEW LIFE! ↑ |
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