| Name: amyt | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 12:05 PM |
| i was in labour and i did care not to mention the internal exams and then the pessaries when your being induced it is all degrading ↑ |
| Name: to Amy t | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 3:21 PM |
| Sorry but you shouldnt be having a baby then if you think it is degrading. Its the only way to bring your baby in the world.How do you suggest its done? ↑ |
| Name: bby-rachie | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 6:13 PM |
| heyas all well i have a couple of questions lol ...well 1. on my vagina where the man sticks his penis ... lol well i have like a bit of skin ova it and u carnt see where ur putting the penis but then yet again when i use my finger to stick up it does it :S:S:S:S i dont understand is this to do with when u go to the docters and they scrape some skin of the opening of youre vagina? cause apparently u have to go to the docters when youre bout 18 and they do that anyways heres my other question sometimes when i finger my self i just pop my finger up and it doesnt even feel nice or enjoyable how comes this? :s do i have to be kinky lol or somet thanks for ur help :P lv bby spice x ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 5:04 AM |
| Jessica, that doesn't make sense. Are you 14 now too? ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 8:21 PM |
| i knew how it wa done i just didnt expect it to be embarressing anyways i didnt plan my baby . i was pregnant and dealt wif it hes 9 months on monday i love him more dan anyfing but i wud never have another due to embarressment instead i wud adopt ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 8:36 PM |
| Amy, it's too bad that you feel that way. I thought it was so amazing when I gave birth to my son, but I 'm a little older than you too, I think, maybe it makes a difference. I was not embarrassed about who saw me because I really didn't care at that point, and really it was just the Dr. and nurse, my husband did look as our son was coming out, but everyone was so focused on the baby. Did you have lots of people in there with you? I had all of my family wait till we called them and then they all came down, I didn't want all of them coming in and watching that though. MAybe you'll change your mind, if not, there are lots of kids out there that need someone to adopt them and love them, sorry you had such a bad experience. ↑ |
| Name: .... | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 8:39 PM |
It depends on the individual.
How is your pain tolerance?
Go to the library and get some good books on natural childbirth ↑ |
| Name: lisa | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 9:17 PM |
my first was 23 hours of pure intense pain
my second a doddle ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 3rd, 2006 9:37 PM |
| Name: Anne-Marie | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 5:34 AM |
| Pain is a state of mind. Control your mind - you can control the pain. ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 8:43 AM |
| chris ur birth sounds beautiful nope onli my mum was wif me and we had a lot of problems so i fink i just had a bad experience with a good result. ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Apr 4th, 2006 8:51 AM |
| chris ur birth sounds beautiful i think i just had a bad experience with a good result. i had a lot of problems only my mum was wif me i kno it sounds stupid saying i did have sex but i am a very private person and i even felt weird wif my mum there. ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 4:19 AM |
| Amy, I can understand that, I wouldn't have had my mom in there, but I had my husband with me. As for the pain, it is a state of mind, but when you are scared and don't know what to expect it can be worse, no harm in getting helpif you need it. I had a rough time after delivery, and the Dr. that discharged me told me that pain meds were not necessary. I had a rough few days at home...still hate that Dr. for making me cry and telling me I was bad for even being concerned about it. But my birth was great and I look forward to doing it again. I think over time you will forget some too, that;s why it's easy for us to do it again. My Dr. (not the mean one) told me that pregnancy really agreed with me though andthat I had a wonderful labor and delivery because I was so open and comfortable with her and everyone there. Seriously, we joked and had a great time in between pushes, they told me I almost laughed my baby out, it helped! ↑ |
| Name: amyt | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 1:38 PM |
| lol you sailed through it then its prob cause i was so young too my body wasnt ready. ur right i suppose i wouldnt put off having another one just yet but next time i wanna do it properly and enjoy my pregnancy instead of being scared. i wanna have my own house a good job and a decent husband before i even consider another child. ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 3:15 PM |
| Amy, I wasn't saying you are too young, I'm soory. I just meant that I didn't have to deal with so many things that a younger mom does, such as her parents. I had a lot of support and you couldn't believe how many people came to visit me while I was being induced, my co-workers called, my parents, inlaws and friends even came up to say hi. Even after my son was born I had lots of people. The nurses actually kept me in the labor delivery rom for a few hours to rest and put my husband and guests in the postpartum room. Labor doesn't get better, but it helps to have support and to be ready for your baby. Just wait till your little one gets a little bigger, you never know... ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 3:22 PM |
| THANKFUL for my mommy to be in the room with me and my bf lol because he had no idea what to do and she was there to help me and him calm down. She has help deliver so many babies I want her in there with the one I am curently preg with right now. It was really helpful But omg the pain was so bd until I got my epidural then smooth sailing lol 38 hour labor can drive you nuts with pain and a gull bladder attack on top of labor hehe ouch ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 5th, 2006 3:27 PM |
| Sarah M, that's cool that you had your mom there. Mine had a hard time seeing me in early labor, she cried and hugged me. It was better for us all that they waited at home, they live a few blocks from the hospital anyway. I had a 38 hour labor too, but thank goodness that's it. you poor thing! This one will probably be a breeze for you! ↑ |
| Name: sammie | Date: Apr 6th, 2006 4:36 PM |
| hya , im 8weekz pregnant and im scared of givin birth cos it will hurt to much ! watz it like givin birth does it hurt ! plz reply ↑ |
| Name: Angela | Date: Apr 6th, 2006 4:45 PM |
| Yeah it hurts. i wont lie to you. It hurts like hell. But i got the epidural and it was fine. But now I am having terrible back pains. Sharp pains thta shoot all the way up my back. But I hear they will go away. I hope so. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 12:47 AM |
| LOL Yes Chris R if my mom would have been crying it would have made it harder lol but hopefully this one is a breeze or that will be hard but I wont have gull bladder attacks during this one since I had it taken out lol so that will lessen the pain from my last i hope. Long labors are hard arent they lol ↑ |
| Name: Jenevieve | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 5:26 PM |
| Shawna that is not true about any 16 year old boy is not going to stay with you if you get pg'd. I am 15 and my baby is due on June15 06 and me and my baby daddy are still together. So all guys are not the same. ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 11th, 2006 3:32 PM |
| Satrah M, you'll have to let us know if the labor gets shorter. Of course I took the epidural on day 2 so it wasn't all that bad for me once I got it, but it was still a long time, and I don't htink I've ever been that tired in my life! You are so blessed to have such a great mom! (Mine is great too, just won't be in the delivery room.) ↑ |
| Name: ami | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 11:47 PM |
| I am taking birthing classes with the lady who will pull the baby out. I am so scared . She told me that she doesn't use drugs because it hurts the baby. I am living with family away from home until after the baby A family in my aunts church will take the baby. Last week I got a belly massage and after pains came but they went away. I keep rubbing and pushing to make thebaby come faster. I am so afraid to do this. I wish I would have got the abortion like my friends told me to ↑ |
| Name: To Ami | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 12:29 AM |
| Name: Fine | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 12:56 AM |
| To Shawna I really don't think it's your place to tell shante that having a baby will put her below the poverty line or ruin her life. Of course having a child trying to go to school and have fun at the same time will be hard, however she can still do whatever she puts her mind to. Her parents dont have to be rich in order for her to have a child. I had my first child when I was 15 years old and now I am a doctor. I first began working as a teacher and returned to med school after 4 years of teaching. Its a long road to travel but it WILL NOT put you "below the poverty line" or make you unsuccessful unless you choose to be. ↑ |
| Name: Marie | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 2:15 PM |
| Ha...I was in labor for 23 hours, had two epidurals and 4 shots of demerol...and I still felt everything at the end!! and yes it hurts, you feel like you're dying or trying to push a baby out of your butthole. I recommend a c-section. ↑ |
| Name: stacey | Date: Apr 14th, 2006 4:39 PM |
| it dint hurt me it waz ma 1st n i waz in labour 1 hour n i am only 17 ↑ |
| Name: christina | Date: Apr 15th, 2006 1:10 PM |
| what happends if your neva ready to have a child even at the age of 30? ↑ |
| Name: Chris R | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 4:00 AM |
| Christina, I don't know if you can ever totally be prepared. My first caught me off-guard, but it was such a blessing and once it happens it changes you. If you don't know if you want children though then maybe that's something you need to think about. Once you have a baby you make room in your life and budget and it all works out. I can't imagine what I ever did before my son. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 4:21 AM |
YES!!!
it hurts alot but when it is all over and done with you are left with a beautiful baby so you forget all about the pain but dont let the pain get the betta of you us women are strong we are built for this its easy just do what the docctors say and those horror stories u here about dont worry the chances of that are 1/1000 trust me you have nothing to worry about
GOOD LUCK!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: To Krystal | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 7:06 AM |
| Not if you get an epidural ↑ |
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